Time when l'm inclined to put emotional considerations second to the immediate necessities, as l see them, in my life. Emotional repression of one kind or another is a probable consequence of this influence. But if l do react with emotional repression, l may become hypercritical, which is really the expression of a repressed feeling, usually of resentment toward someone. Another negative expression of this influence is the "martyr game", a tactic of pretending that something is all right with me while subtly signaling that it is not and possibly trying to make others feel guilty for their behavior. Often this is done quite unconsciously. It is much better to put my feelings on the line, even if they don't seem to fit the situation.
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